“I create space for my healing”A Conversation with Mother Wound Healing Coach Moshitadi LehlomelaJun 13, 2023Jun 13, 2023
It’s okay to BLAME your parents for the trauma they caused you.For as long as I can remember my parents had always been at liberty to blame me. At age nine I was already getting blamed for big things…Mar 6, 20212Mar 6, 20212
How to address you childhood traumas without holding mother hostage to the past.People do not like being reminded of their unattractive past, a past they are not they are proud of. Your mother is not exempt from this…Oct 30, 2020Oct 30, 2020
Fathers, treat your sons with the same softness you treat your daughters with.13 September 2020Sep 12, 2020Sep 12, 2020
When we want our parents to be proud of us, we imprison ourselves for their approval.“I JUST WANT TO MAKE MY PARENTS PROUD”. “I JUST WANT TO MAE MY MOTHER PROUD”. How many times have to say these words or heard someone say…May 19, 2020May 19, 2020
Firstborn sons are not substitute-husbands for negligent fathers.19 May 2020|Emotional incest, Healing, Mother woundMay 19, 2020May 19, 2020
Why you are attracted to toxic romantic partners and how to break the cycle.We all have a “type”. Without any coherent reason, we find ourselves drawn to a specific look and specific traits in a potential romantic…Apr 17, 2020Apr 17, 2020
What my emotionally unavailable mother taught me about honoring my emotionsMy family is a collective of amazing people. All of them beautiful and dealing with life in their own interesting ways. I have 7 siblings…Apr 13, 20201Apr 13, 20201
HAVING A VENT BUDDY IS DERAILING YOUR GROWTH AND HEALING.Having vent buddy feels good. It makes us feel less alone, it makes us feel heard, our pain is validated, but most importantly we feel a…Feb 29, 20201Feb 29, 20201