Moshitadi Lehlomela“I create space for my healing”A Conversation with Mother Wound Healing Coach Moshitadi Lehlomela10 min read·Jun 13, 2023----
Moshitadi LehlomelaIt’s okay to BLAME your parents for the trauma they caused you.For as long as I can remember my parents had always been at liberty to blame me. At age nine I was already getting blamed for big things…7 min read·Mar 6, 2021--2--2
Moshitadi LehlomelaIS YOUR NERVOUS SYSTEM RUINING YOUR LIFE?HERE ARE FIVE WAYS YOU CAN TELL6 min read·Dec 1, 2020--1--1
Moshitadi LehlomelaHow to address you childhood traumas without holding mother hostage to the past.People do not like being reminded of their unattractive past, a past they are not they are proud of. Your mother is not exempt from this…3 min read·Oct 30, 2020----
Moshitadi LehlomelaFathers, treat your sons with the same softness you treat your daughters with.13 September 20204 min read·Sep 12, 2020----
Moshitadi LehlomelaWhen we want our parents to be proud of us, we imprison ourselves for their approval.“I JUST WANT TO MAKE MY PARENTS PROUD”. “I JUST WANT TO MAE MY MOTHER PROUD”. How many times have to say these words or heard someone say…3 min read·May 19, 2020----
Moshitadi LehlomelaFirstborn sons are not substitute-husbands for negligent fathers.19 May 2020|Emotional incest, Healing, Mother wound5 min read·May 19, 2020--1--1
Moshitadi LehlomelaWhy you are attracted to toxic romantic partners and how to break the cycle.We all have a “type”. Without any coherent reason, we find ourselves drawn to a specific look and specific traits in a potential romantic…4 min read·Apr 17, 2020----
Moshitadi LehlomelaWhat my emotionally unavailable mother taught me about honoring my emotionsMy family is a collective of amazing people. All of them beautiful and dealing with life in their own interesting ways. I have 7 siblings…3 min read·Apr 13, 2020--1--1
Moshitadi LehlomelaHAVING A VENT BUDDY IS DERAILING YOUR GROWTH AND HEALING.Having vent buddy feels good. It makes us feel less alone, it makes us feel heard, our pain is validated, but most importantly we feel a…6 min read·Feb 29, 2020--1--1
